In Reality...

For some people in reality the fact of not knowing can be by far the worst part, and if you don't have a support system whom do you lean on? How do you overcome without obsessing? The fear of being alone? Suppressing your emotions can increase secondary diagnosis in other pre-existing mental health conditions, including anxiety and depression ( from the unconscious mind.) 

     Alexithymia is a Greek term in Freudian Psychodynamics Theories (Sigmund Freud 1856- 1939) which translates to " No words for emotion " it is estimated that 1 in 10 people suffer from Alexithymia . Furthermore, let's not become accustom to suppressing our emotions. Footprints only need to be made once for someone to follow; how do you determine which path will guide you in the " right direction? "

"Product of your environment" extends to not only the environment of family and friends but the era you grew up in, how you think and your peers - what happens if you were delt a shitty hand in life? Mixed with the lack of support, now that's a deadly cocktail..... Talk about the odds being stacked against you before you can even leave the gate!  

     Sorry, have I introduced myself yet? My name is SHIT HAPPENS! Funny but not, especially if you fall under this small but potentially life threatening scenario! The person behind this page knows first hand what it's like - suicide once being an option... However this is not about ME, this is about YOU, the person who can relate or knows someone who can relate. 

     Not only is it possible to become what you want, it's also possible to change the path for your own children's future. I promise it's easy to be bad, it's not easy to be good, it's even more difficult when your constantly surrounded by those who want to bring you down to their level. I can hold your hand through all the SHIT that Happens, but YOU have to be DETERMINED.... MIND OVER MATTER THIS TIME... BUT I'll get you through the gate!

-Shit Happens